How Online Porn is Destroying Men's Libido and Ability to Have Real S*x With Real Women

In a new revelation, it has been shown that online porn and x-rated videos play a big role in determining the desire of men for actual s*x.

 

 

Internet pornography is destroying men’s ability to perform with real women and is creating a generation of “totally sexless” couples.

 

That's the view of a former escort who has travelled the world with her wealthy clients - including some from the UK.

 

Lantana Bleu has warned that over-exposure to explicit images and sordid videos is increasingly preventing viewers from becoming aroused by ordinary sexual encounters.

 

They consider the lurid scenes in erotic movies – often played out by glamour models – to be the norm and become disinterested in normal acts of lovemaking, she explains.

 

The highly sought-after VIP escort says she knows "better than anyone” how pornography can affect a person’s libido and performance.

 

“The over-consumption of porn is ruining relationships on a staggering scale worldwide, make no mistake,” she warned.

“In my experience, men who regularly watch porn struggle to perform in a normal environment – they secretly yearn for the same wild times they see on their computer to take place with their partner.

“They also can’t help but comparing themselves to the male star and end up feeling inadequate," she says.

Lantana says as many as one-in-five men worldwide may now prefer online stimulation to the real thing, and those who do venture into the bedroom are often “clueless and selfish” because they have such little real-world experience of sex and intimacy.

 

“At least a fifth of my clients told me – on more than one occasion - that they favoured video stimulation over actual intercourse with their wife.

“And, invariably, if a client had performance issues then he would eventually confess to a heavy reliance on pornography.

“They were addicts and had become reliant on a daily dose of porn with beautiful, coiffed glamour girls for enjoyment and escape."

Others “upgrade” and turn to expensive call girls, sex parlours and prostitutes to obtain that same “kinky kick” that they experience online.

 

This leads to a “sex drought” and contributes “very significantly” to relationship and marriage breakdown, warns Lantana, a former high-priced call girl turned erotic author.

 

“This might be good news for escorts and for the sex industry, but it is creating a generation of sexless couples who don’t communicate about their sex lives and, inevitably, will break-up or divorce.”

 

Now retired, Lantana has penned a series of semi-biographical erotic novels based on her exploits. The first, “Learning The Life”, is out now.

 

In 2011, the first 24-hour counselling service for online pornography addiction was launched to support the UK's estimated 1.2million adult addicts.

 

But Lantana said that pornography – especially that found online - was a “cruel and destructive mistress”.

 

In her newly-published The Spicy Secrets of a Jet-Set Temptress trilogy, she describes several men who turned to sex workers for that “fantasy feeling” but couldn’t perform because of an over-reliance on porn.

 

She said: “I had a lot of addicts come to me because they no longer felt fulfilled at home, but, ultimately, it was rarely their partners who had the problem.

 

“Many struggle to engage in real-life sexual relationships because their view is completely skewed by the fantasies they watch.

“It creates a vicious circle whereby their addiction leads to an increasing difficulty in achieving satisfaction with their partner, who in turn gives up on trying to please someone who can’t be satisfied."

 

Bleu, who lives in the United States, added: “People don’t talk about this as a wider cultural problem in the same way as they would the war on drugs, but it is a nasty addiction that can eventually erode otherwise happy families.

"More needs to be done to address the situation sooner rather than later.”

 

- Mirror Online